Well, that black pin is the drive setting jumper. Usually it's on Cable Select.
You need to put the 40-Pin IDE cable in (It should only go in one way, but if not: red wire faces towards the 4 pin power plug). Then, put in the power plug.
If you're running XP, go to your start menu, and type "compmgmt.msc". In Computer Management, choose "Disk Management".
Find your drive, and choose "Initialize Disk" (or something like).
After that, it should be simplish. Sorry, I don't know how to do it in anything other than XP.