)Why the fuck are people so over-protective!?! I'm nearly 20 and I still can't make new friends without my old mates throwing the death threats at them (literally)
Ok so some of you know that I go to the same bar every Tuesday night for alternative night, and I've been going out of term time for the past year since I met a mate (Mike) who I used to work with, and his mates (Jordan and his sister Kelly) which are now my mates coz we all play Halo2 parties together. So yeah, for the past year I've been going with them and making a few new friends here and there.
And well a few weeks ago when I came back for summer I was pretty hammered and dancing around on the dancefloor by myself like an idiot, and a guy was dancing a bit on his own, so I asked him if he wanted to dance. So we were dancing for a while, having a laff and jumpin around like idiots, and at the end of the night a large group of us went to the take away place (although I didn't get owt coz I dunno why people want to eat after drinking!?!), and then my mate Mike dissapears and leaves me alone with the guy I met that night, and his mates.
We ended up in the 24 hour snooker centre and stayed there til like 5am having a laff, and they all walked me to the taxi rank and I got a taxi home.
Then I have to deal with all this rubbish about Mike bein all "Wah wah wah I don't trust him, he's slimy, he's only after you for sex, he was all over you" which was SO untrue!! ARGHHH
So I met Hue (the lad) and Rob (his mate) in town a couple of days later and we sat in the church yard and talked, and went into a few shops and had a good time.
So yeah blah blah blah last week when I got chucked out of the parents house I went to that bar and at the end of the night I had a massive (drunken) argument with Mike over it all and other shite, and Jordan told me that Mike hated me and never wanted to talk to me again, 3 days later he apparently wanted to resolve things, but I didn't see him til last night. Well yesterday in the day coz I was in town already sortin some stuff out and Rob was there, I met up with Rob and we had fun, and Hue joined us too, and we had a laff and I asked if we could go to the snooker centre again, and they were like "Yeah that'll be fun"
So I turned up last night and I was too scared to talk to Mike so I went and spoke to some other mates first, and then to Rob and Hue and eventually Mike led me outside into the beer garden and we resolved things and he went into this whole thing about my drinking problem (LOL) but yeah things were ok apart from him slating Rob and Hue even though he doesn't know them at all, went inside and danced for a while with all sortsa people and at the end of the night I said to Mike "well I previously arranged to go to the snooker centre with Hue and Rob so I'm off now", left with Hue and Rob, Kelly (Jordan's sister) literally drags me away and no one messes with her coz she's a big lass and her Dad used to be a bouncer at the bar for years, and she was yellin at me sayin how niaeve (sp?) I am and that they're out to take advantage of me so I started sayin that its my decision and that I can take care of myself and Mike got involved and Rob and Hue and others and everyone was arguing so I stormed off and Mike followed and I could hear Kelly sayin to Rob and Hue "If you ever lay one fucking finger on her, EVER, you'll get fucking killed" and it annoys me SO much because I'm older than half the people I'm mates with in that Bar and I can handle myself and Rob and Hue have NEVER tried owt on with me, they've never groped me or said owt slimy or nasty, they've never touched my drinks and they've only ever looked out for me so I wish people would stop being so damn OVER protective and judgemental!!
What worries me is that the death threats that go around are pretty much to their word.. Kelly's uncle apparently has a thing for dousin people in petrol and setting them on fire.. and Mike told me that he even locked a guy in a van and set it on fire..
I know they do it coz they care about me coz shite has happened before, and I love 'em to bits but it winds me up that whatever I do they watch me constantly coz they think someone is always out to take advantage.
So yeah, theres loadsa more detail to this but no one cares so umm yeah rant over for now
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