I got a guitar teacher, learnt all my major and minor chords so I had myself a base. I quit and taught myself, at the moment im studying to read and write music in my spare time (when I get time hehe). Its hard to do everything at once, finger exercises are very important although. Also eventually you get a natural feel of the fretboard, so you know which notes sound good with each other without having to know what notes they are.
Heres a nice key (recognise the musical order of the notes? ABCDEFG) that I made for you of the notes across the fretboard, it will come in handy as tabliture doesn't really help you with learning music.
E/ F-F#-G-G#-A-A#-B-B#-C-C#-D-#D-E(12 Fret and repeat pattern) Thick String
A/ B-B#-C-C#-D-D#-E-E#-F-F#-G-G#-A(12 Fret and repeat pattern)
D/ E-E#-F-F#-G-G#-A-A#-B-B#-C-C#-D(12 Fret and repeat pattern)
G/ A-A#-B-B#-C-C#-D-D#-E-E#-F-F#-G(12 Fret and repeat pattern)
B/ C-C#-D-D#-E-E#-F-F#-G-G#-A-A#-B(12 Fret and repeat pattern)
E/ F-F#-G-G#-A-A#-B-B#-C-C#-D-D#-E(12 Fret and repeat pattern) Thinnest String
When you get to the 12th fret and beyond you are hitting an
octave.
Eg, A String, 1st is B. A string 13th fret is also B but an octave higher.
Also if your wondering where the flats are, they are the sharp note but using the note in front and making it flat. eg, C# is D Flat. F# is G Flat. A# is B Flat.
One more thing, learn scales!
http://www.guitarnoise.com/wiki/index.p ... tar_scales